day 398
50.–52. Tag: Sorrent und der verrückte Verkehr
Our time is now.
On 31 July 2025 we left Munich with two children aged four and two, in our camper called Enea. We write about where we are, what we come across and what we learn day by day.
A family of four, a camper called Enea, and a year to find out what a childhood off the usual track actually looks like.
19,643 km driven◆398 days on the move◆37 stops◆7 countries crossed◆17,823 photographs taken◆
19,643 km driven◆398 days on the move◆37 stops◆7 countries crossed◆17,823 photographs taken◆
The journey in numbers
days
398
kilometres
19,643
stops
37
countries
7
The countries we crossed
DEGermany
ATAustria
ITItaly
SMSan Marino
FRFrance
ESSpain
PTPortugal
Our route, stage by stage.
The line is our real trace, recorded with a GPS tracker. 22 stages are written up so far — more will follow. Pick a name from the list and the map shows where it was.
We gave up Lavinia's and Valentino's nursery places and look after them ourselves. An experiment that starts from something simple: as much time together as possible. And from being curious about what care and learning can look like otherwise. In public, with all the complications.
Yoga, pranayama (the work with the breath), traditional Chinese medicine, cooking in seven square metres. And training without a gym: HIT when we stay somewhere longer, and a pitch next to a calisthenics park is, for us, a good pitch. In some of this we have serious training. Herbs, the garden, growing our own — those interest us a great deal, and there we are at the beginning, which we say every time.
The camper is an Etrusco, and out of that came Enea: the man in the Aeneid charged by the gods with finding a new home. Ours keeps us company on the same search — and for as long as it lasts, he is the home. Here are the damages, the conversions and the tools.
None of this is new, and you can arrive at it without a year in a camper. Living it is another matter — feeling the understanding rise in you. These are the sentences that come in the evening, when the children are finally asleep — or out running, when room opens up for the voice inside.
01
You need surprisingly little
Four people in seven square metres: anything that comes along takes space from someone else. That calculation sorts things faster than any resolution. After a year the list of what we actually miss is short — and there are no objects on it.
02
Fear is a poor advisor
Almost none of the worries people listed for us before we left came true. The difficulties that did arrive were on none of those lists. Since then we notice how many decisions are made out of fear while looking like good sense — our own included.
03
It falls into place, if you let it
There are days when everything falls into place: the pitch, the weather, the people you meet. That can't be planned, only allowed — and that is exactly where we fail on a regular basis. Setting off without knowing where we'll be that evening is the part that still takes practice.
04
The goal gives direction, the rest happens on the way
Without a goal the energy runs in every direction and therefore in none. But the goal is not the place where something happens: what counts lies between setting off and arriving — provided you go into it instead of waiting to arrive. It is the thing we remind each other of most often, usually while driving.
The questions we get asked most.
Tap an entry to open it. These are the answers we usually give by email, written out properly once. Where we don't have one yet, we say so.
01
Real consumption: 11.69 l/100 km over 64 fill-ups
Keep a fuel log from the first tank. Nobody at the dealership told us 11.69 l/100 km: it came out of 64 fill-ups and 20,683 kilometres, and it is the only figure you can work out a leg of the trip with beforehand. Lowest 10.41, highest 14.36 — those four litres are how you drive, not the vehicle. The most expensive day was always the one when we were in a hurry.
02
Where to sleep: three nights out of four cost nothing
We noted every night, one by one: of 390 nights, 294 cost nothing — public car parks, roadsides, friends and relatives. The other 96 we paid an average of €25.47 for, which is what anyone pays. The low average doesn't come from haggling: it comes from where you sleep. An aire costs a third of a campsite and does the same job for a night in transit.
03
Water: disinfect the tank before it smells
On day 37, in Ostuni, we disinfected the tank. It is not something you do when you have time: it is something you do before filling from a source you know nothing about. We realised too late that we had taken on rainwater. The full procedure — disinfectant, roundabouts to mix it, two rinses — meant 250 litres moved by hand with a 12-litre canister.
04
Looking after them without nursery: what a day looks like
This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.
05
Working remotely with two children awake
This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.
06
Four people, seven square metres: what came and what did not
This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.
We're glad to write the open entries in whatever order is useful to you. Tell us which question brought you here: five lines, and we read them all on Sunday evening at the table in the camper.
Maddalena is Italian, Gunther German, Lavinia is five and Valentino three. Enea is a 2024 Etrusco A 7300 DB and has been carrying us around Europe for over a year.