Skip to content

Soul Fuel a family journey

ITDEESEN

day 398 50.–52. Tag: Sorrent und der verrückte Verkehr

Our time is now.

On 31 July 2025 we left Munich with two children aged four and two, in our camper called Enea. We write about where we are, what we come across and what we learn day by day.

A family of four, a camper called Enea, and a year to find out what a childhood off the usual track actually looks like.

See how far we have come The numbers →

The camper at sunrise on an open square, cypresses behind and a child on a balance bike.

The journey in numbers

days
398
kilometres
19,643
stops
37
countries
7
Map of Europe: the countries we crossed in dark — Germany, Austria, Italy, San Marino, France, Spain, PortugalGermanyAustriaItalySan MarinoFranceSpainPortugal

The countries we crossed

  • DEGermany
  • ATAustria
  • ITItaly
  • SMSan Marino
  • FRFrance
  • ESSpain
  • PTPortugal

Our route,
stage by stage.

The line is our real trace, recorded with a GPS tracker. 22 stages are written up so far — more will follow. Pick a name from the list and the map shows where it was.

1. 1. Tag: Abreise – pfiat di Minga2. 2. Tag: Fahrt nach Udine3. 3.-11. Tag: Udine4. 12. Tag: es geht (endlich) weiter bzw. richtig los5. 13. Tag: Besuch in Abano Terme6. 14. Tag: Es geht in die Toskana7. 15.+16. Tag: wir fahren ans Meer …endlich!8. 17.+18. Tag: weiter am Meer entlang – Argentario und Pescia Romana9. 19. Tag: abenteuerliche Fahrt nach Farnese und bezauberndes Pitigliano10. 20. Tag: lange Etappe zur Adria Küste (Lago di Bolsena, Pescara, Fossacesia)11. 21. Tag: Apulien, Gargano, Vieste12. 22.-32. Tag: Vieste, Baia degli Aranci – endlich Erholung(?)13. 31.8.: 1 Monat unterwegs14. 33. Tag: Margherita di Savoia – Besuch bei der „Leihfamilie“15. 34. Tag: Polignano und Alberobello16. 35.+36. Tag: Waldorfschule La Stella in Ceglie Messapica17. 37. Tag: Ostuni und die Tankdesinfektion18. 38.-41. Tag: Punta Prosciutto und das Waldfestival19. 42.-46. Tag: Sant'Isidoro – Sturm, Strand und Ameisen20. 47.+48. Tag: Zurück nach Ostuni und das beeindruckende Matera21. 49. Tag: Spontaner Besuch in Pompeji22. 50.–52. Tag: Sorrent und der verrückte Verkehr
31 July 2025 → 1 September 2026

All 22 stages →

the stages 22 stages

selected stage

50.–52. Tag: Sorrent und der verrückte Verkehr

18 September 2025 – 20 September 2025

3
days
64
kilometres
58
photographs

Latest stories

All 27 stories →

Growing

We gave up Lavinia's and Valentino's nursery places and look after them ourselves. An experiment that starts from something simple: as much time together as possible. And from being curious about what care and learning can look like otherwise. In public, with all the complications.

All 3 articles →

Wellbeing

Yoga, pranayama (the work with the breath), traditional Chinese medicine, cooking in seven square metres. And training without a gym: HIT when we stay somewhere longer, and a pitch next to a calisthenics park is, for us, a good pitch. In some of this we have serious training. Herbs, the garden, growing our own — those interest us a great deal, and there we are at the beginning, which we say every time.

Go to the section →

The vehicle

The camper is an Etrusco, and out of that came Enea: the man in the Aeneid charged by the gods with finding a new home. Ours keeps us company on the same search — and for as long as it lasts, he is the home. Here are the damages, the conversions and the tools.

All 2 articles →

Pictures from the road

What we came
to understand.

None of this is new, and you can arrive at it without a year in a camper. Living it is another matter — feeling the understanding rise in you. These are the sentences that come in the evening, when the children are finally asleep — or out running, when room opens up for the voice inside.

01 You need surprisingly little

Four people in seven square metres: anything that comes along takes space from someone else. That calculation sorts things faster than any resolution. After a year the list of what we actually miss is short — and there are no objects on it.

02 Fear is a poor advisor

Almost none of the worries people listed for us before we left came true. The difficulties that did arrive were on none of those lists. Since then we notice how many decisions are made out of fear while looking like good sense — our own included.

03 It falls into place, if you let it

There are days when everything falls into place: the pitch, the weather, the people you meet. That can't be planned, only allowed — and that is exactly where we fail on a regular basis. Setting off without knowing where we'll be that evening is the part that still takes practice.

04 The goal gives direction, the rest happens on the way

Without a goal the energy runs in every direction and therefore in none. But the goal is not the place where something happens: what counts lies between setting off and arriving — provided you go into it instead of waiting to arrive. It is the thing we remind each other of most often, usually while driving.

The questions we
get asked most.

Tap an entry to open it. These are the answers we usually give by email, written out properly once. Where we don't have one yet, we say so.

A track runs downhill through an olive grove, the white town of Vieste on the sea at the horizon.
01 Real consumption: 11.69 l/100 km over 64 fill-ups

Keep a fuel log from the first tank. Nobody at the dealership told us 11.69 l/100 km: it came out of 64 fill-ups and 20,683 kilometres, and it is the only figure you can work out a leg of the trip with beforehand. Lowest 10.41, highest 14.36 — those four litres are how you drive, not the vehicle. The most expensive day was always the one when we were in a hurry.

02 Where to sleep: three nights out of four cost nothing

We noted every night, one by one: of 390 nights, 294 cost nothing — public car parks, roadsides, friends and relatives. The other 96 we paid an average of €25.47 for, which is what anyone pays. The low average doesn't come from haggling: it comes from where you sleep. An aire costs a third of a campsite and does the same job for a night in transit.

03 Water: disinfect the tank before it smells

On day 37, in Ostuni, we disinfected the tank. It is not something you do when you have time: it is something you do before filling from a source you know nothing about. We realised too late that we had taken on rainwater. The full procedure — disinfectant, roundabouts to mix it, two rinses — meant 250 litres moved by hand with a 12-litre canister.

04 Looking after them without nursery: what a day looks like

This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.

05 Working remotely with two children awake

This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.

06 Four people, seven square metres: what came and what did not

This entry isn't written yet. We're not filling it with what people usually say: as soon as we have an honest answer, it will be here.

Everything about Enea, in «The vehicle» →

What would you like to know?

We're glad to write the open entries in whatever order is useful to you. Tell us which question brought you here: five lines, and we read them all on Sunday evening at the table in the camper.

The survey is not open yet: write to us directly →

About us

Maddalena is Italian, Gunther German, Lavinia is five and Valentino three. Enea is a 2024 Etrusco A 7300 DB and has been carrying us around Europe for over a year.

Who we are, in full →

Twice a month, with no algorithm in between

One long piece we publish nowhere else, plus a summary of what happened. You can leave whenever you want.

Subscribe to the newsletter